it's a tagline from some lame commercial, but it's true.

Everywhere you turn, all you hear is NO.  It's impossible, we can't do this, it would never work, that just can't be fixed, it's too late, we've never done it that way before, but I just can't fix it, we need a new one, it's broken, you can't change things, etc., etc. etc.

I want to hear something else.  Let's try this, I'll do it myself, follow your heart, do something (anything!) different, it IS possible, I WILL make it work, I CAN and WILL change things to make them right, to make myself happy.

"YES is the answer."